RELAXED HAIR...women of colour please help!?

I understand how you feel I rarely perm my hair (like every 4 months) but I can help you with your answer. I used to use hair mayonase on my hair because it is filled with protein and I would mage it in my scalp after I permed. It made my hair look really healthy so I wouldnt have to cut my ends. After I rinsed it out I used some Dark and Lovely Honey Kissed Hairdress and rubbed it from my roots to tips (just a little) I use a Dr. Browns perm and products but what I love the most is the hair care products at Victorias Secret. They carry a hair serum that smells so good and I dont have to grease my scalp. It works wonders and my hair flows and isnt all greasy and stuck to my head.