If men didn't pressure traditional relationships, what would happen?

i think at first it would be met with resistance,most people when given the opportunity opt for the easy way out,i think it would be a "don't feed the bears" scenario,if people stopped letting women get away with shirking responsibility and getting free hand outs based on misconceptions of there capabilities (i.e delicate damsel in distress stereotypes) they'd start having to get in the game,selfish women aren't born there made